There are many reasons why writers write, but one is that that they wish to be read. Most writers want to find their audience and connect with their audience. Whether it is because they have something to say, information to share, or are creating an experience, through memoir and fiction, most writers–at least those who seek to be published—are looking for someone on the other end to read their words.
Volumes have been written about how hard it is to get published, from the grueling search for an agent to finding a publisher. And it is all true. It’s damn hard. It’s easy to get discouraged as the rejection pile grows higher. Even worse, many queries and efforts appear to go unheard, with writers not even receiving a rejection from which they can glean the reason why they are being passed over.
As a busy publishing professional, I am guilty of doling out rejection and ignoring queries. This is not because I am an unkind person. But there are literally not enough hours in the day to fully evaluate unsolicited queries and respond thoughtfully, with sensitivity to each.
Writers should know that we are truly searching for you. The thrill of discovering new talent never dulls. One thing that can help is exhibiting a positive attitude despite the discouraging aspects of the quest. A writer’s personality usually resonates when they make an appeal, and at the end of the day, we’re drawn not only to talent but to a person with a positive spirit. I don’t mean you should be relentlessly cheerful, but we do tend to work harder for people we actually like. Not all talented authors are likable, but some are, and I just love working with authors who are professional, kind, respectful, hard-working, listen well, and hungry for true partnership.
So next time you send out a query, let your higher self shine through. It just may help you get the attention you deserve.